Friday, March 19, 2010

We made it to another Friday.

I felt like volleyball went really well last night. I'm not sure how the girls feel, but I can honestly say that I saw some huge improvements {like crazy big} in just two hours focused on setting. I'm especially thankful for my friend Julie's willingness to organize/promote it for me. She's so great - one of those women who just constantly shock you by all that they tackle and then amaze you with the beautiful and successful outcomes of each project. I'm thankful for the time and opportunity to coach again, and also for the provision God's offering through it. :)

Eugene's friends, Colby, TJ, and Lacy stopped by to watch The Office and visit. Espn was so stinkin bad though - he peed on TJ's leg! I can't believe he did it! TJ was a great sport, laughing, but still!

I'm thankful to have made it to another Friday. Another whirlwind week lived. Eugene and I are prompted to start considering another live-altering decision {I know, we've had a boat-load of these lately}! But we're {well he's doing better than I am} patiently waiting for more information. 

After work, we're going to my parents' house for dinner & to bake stuff for Casey's shower tomorrow. Granola bread and a special bundt cake. Recipes to follow! Woohoo!

A few verses that are my comfort this morning.

"I know the Lord is always with me. I will not be shaken, for he is right beside me." Psalm 16:8

"I trust in the Lord for protection." Psalm 11:1


"And I am convinced that nothing can ever separate us from God's love. Neither death nor life, neither angels nor demons, neither our fears for today nor our worries about tomorrow—not even the powers of hell can separate us from God's love." Romans 8:38, NLT

"But I will trust in your unfailing love. I will rejoice because You have rescued me." Psalm 13:5


How easy it is to forget how many times He's rescued me. I'm pretty pitiful - I need rescued so often! And I especially like the part in Romans 8 {that I bolded} that declares that my fears for today and my worries about tomorrow can't separate me from my God's love. I can just hear Beth Moore saying, "Oh somebody wants to say GLORY!!"

Another day of fighting fears and tears, but by His grace it's Friday. And another day full of His blessings.












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Thursday, March 18, 2010

New Life

Right next to the sign to our condo complex, popping out of the mulch, I saw this yesterday:


I think we're turning the corner of winter. Finally. {Hear my sigh of relief.} It's been a long winter - in my life and in nature - and I'm so thankful that my eyes are tempted to tear up just knowing we're moving on to another season of life. Eugene and I have handled quite a bit of change and challenge this winter. God has walked us through the bitter cold, and he has provided warmth every step. I am amazed by His provision. I am amazed by the new life he overturns for us daily. Don't get me wrong, I know there are plenty more flips for us coming up, but it's definitely been reassuring to see God work so evidently in our lives...His perfect plan, not ours. We're young. But we're learning. I think I'm going to try to spend this season on my knees. Adoration and desperation - God puts me right where I need to be.

Tonight I'm coaching a volleyball open gym/private lesson for some girls. I've been out of "volleyball mode" for so long, I'm actually nervous! I just pray that it goes smoothly, and that I can be a good example for these young girls. Hopefully they can see His face shining on mine. And hopefully we have enough volleyballs! :)

AND tomorrow's FRIDAY. Praise the Lord! I'm one day closer to the weekend, and one day closer to seeing my baby niece and sister! Talk about new life - what a blessing that day will be when she's born!

p.s. I'm craving a craft project to re-do some furniture. Hmm.

xoxo,

Jane

Wednesday, March 17, 2010

Bring on the baseball!

Wow, I've definitely been hit by the baseball bug thanks to my husband. I used to hate baseball - thought it was so boring! But now, I love going to games, sitting outside in the sun {hopefully it's sunny}, watching my friends {it used to be watching my boyfriend, which was even better} hit singles and make double plays. I love the relaxed-ness of the game. Seriously, what other sport is so easy to play with a mouthful of sunflower seeds bulging your cheek out! 


One of my favorite things about going to baseball games - besides soaking up sunshine on the skin - is eating snacks while watching. Pretzels, muffins, twizzlers, you name it...always tastes better outside with baseball!

We took Espn with us to the AIA park for is first real public appearance. He did so stinking well! He sat, wagged his tail, took a few walks, and obeyed! Go figure! He especially loved it when the players' water and ice jug was emptied after the game. {He really likes ice!}


Eugene and I also treated ourselves {mainly for him} to Papa John's pizza because we had a 50% off coupon. And he got a free 2 Liter of Mt. Dew...oh snap he was pumped! :) Time outside with the pup + pizza & seeing Eugene so happy with the free Mt. Dew + LOST = wondrous things!

xoxo,

Caitlin

Tuesday, March 16, 2010

Draw me nearer.

Yesterday I tried another slow cooker recipe since we had to leave for small group at 7 and I had to run to the grocery after work for a few shower pick-ups. And again, I basically made it up as I went! It turned out well, but sadly it's not Eugene's favorite meal...but I knew that going into it and he's a great sport about it. It's a give and take with his simple palate!

Ham and White Bean Soup with Dumplings
5 slices {or so} of ham
1/2 package of navy beans
water
1 carrot
Italian Spice Mix {sage, parsley, etc.}
onion powder
salt & pepper
2 pieces of bread crust

Dumplings: 1 c. bisquick baking mix & 1/2 c. water & Italian Spice Mix

(not my pic., but it looks exactly like this + really yummy dumplings on top)

Cube the ham into small bite-sized pieces. Peel and dice the carrot. Combine all ingredients except the bread into your slow cooker. Cover with water {you want the water to be about 2 inches above the ingredients.} I cooked mine on high for 4 1/2 hours, then when I got home from work, I blended the bread in our Magic Bullet, dumped it all into a pot on the stove and I boiled it hard for about 20 min. {I only did this because I didn't have time for it to cook longer in the slow cooker. If you have 8 hours for it to cook, you don't need to boil it at all.} I put it back in the slow cooker. Then I made my dumplings by mixing the bisquick, water, and spices. I spooned the batter onto the soup in the slow cooker, covered it, and cooked it for 20 more minutes. Serve it up! I also like this soup with corn bread instead of dumplings, but Eugene loves the dumplings, "It's like half baked bread dough - what else could you want!"

We had small group last night. We watched a video of a couple where {long story short} the husband cheated and left his family for four years, and the wife always prayed for him and finally accepted him back and both found the Lord in the process. We talked about how sometimes we just always expect marriage to be there. I am remembering to not take my marriage or my husband for granted. We also talked about the great grace, forgiveness, and Christ-like love the wife showed.

And we talked about how God's purpose for us isn't to get us through the struggles; it's to drive us to Him in the midst of the hardships. This one is hard for me right now because I keep telling myself, that once we get pass this crazy time, our marriage will be easier, my trials will be lighter. But it's not likely. Life is full of challenges. And it's always going to be hard. But I have my God, and I have my husband, and that's good enough for me. I have to learn to enjoy life, despite the tearful and fearful times, because it's today. I don't want to focus on the day things will get easier, because that honestly may never happen. And I'm okay with that. I'm okay with that. Things are good right now, and I'm going to work on soaking up every second of life because I'm blessed with a God who is drawing me nearer to him and a husband who is staying by my side forever.

Oh, and there's a great Air1 verse of the day: "They do not fear bad news; they confidently trust the Lord to care for them." Psalms 112:7

xoxo,

Jane

Monday, March 15, 2010

R&R Weekend: Relationships and Recovery

On Friday, I finished my project for baby niece. :) I will post the how-to steps next week after I show my sista at her shower on Saturday. Later Friday evening, Libby and Scott came over with Short Stop pizza {so delish}, salad, and my leftover chocolate chip cookies. We had such a nice time, finally catching up and just being friends. We Skyped to see baby stuff. We visited. We laughed. We laughed some more. AND we beat the boys in Sequence! I seriously like that game {so much!}


Saturday, Eugene and I slept in {glorious!} And we stayed in our PJs until noon. We enjoyed our new cable too. Oh yeah, forgot to mention, we splurged and got cable because I negotiated a really great deal. Eugene's pumped, and I honestly thought it'd be five years before we could get it. I worked 7 hours Saturday night, while Eugene went to Grandpa Wade's to celebrate his grandpa's birthday. I came home at 10 to Eugene and Dillan playing Mario Kart. Brotherly love.

Sunday was a great day too. We taught about Jesus' power to help us in Kindergarten class, and we ate grilled turkey and cheese for lunch - made by Eugene {they always taste better when he makes them!} We had our weekend "date" on Sunday: we went to look at a few real estate open houses. It was so fun to imagine our lives living in a house, with kids' toys all over the place, Espn running in the fenced in backyard, and a real kitchen. Ah, it was beautiful. We're not even close to being ready to buy a house, but it sure was fun to dream together.

It was a weekend of enjoying relationships and recovering from stress and weekly life. {Just what I needed.}

Friday, March 12, 2010

Friends & 514 points of stress. {not both at once!}

Last night I had an absolutely lovely visit with my roomie from college. We ate dinner {recipe below}, watched The Office, and played Sequence. I love that game, and we had {so much} fun playing it - probably because Melissa & I won 4 out of the 5 games we played! It was so nice to visit with Melissa and Drew. It's good for the soul to spend time with good people. :) I heart you, MK!





The chicken turned out to be pretty good. I think next time I'm giong to shred it and make it with black beans, corn, rice, and tortillas. The sauce was really tasty.

Slow Cooker Salsa Chicken
4 boneless, skinless chicken breasts
1 cup salsa
1/2 package taco seasoning
1 can cream of mushroom soup
1/2 cup reduced fat sour cream


Add chicken to slow cooker. Sprinkle taco seasoning over chicken. Pour salsa and soup over chicken. Cook on low for 6 to 8 hours. Remove from heat, take out the chicken and stir in sour cream. Combine again, and serve with rice. {We had it with brown rice and sweet corn...and chocolate chip cookies, of course!}


Chicken and salsa sauce before adding the sour cream - it smelled so good!


With the sour cream {I didn't snap a pic. of it plated, but it looked more appetizing on a plate!}

* * *
On a completely different topic - I found this article on a blog I read that lists common items that cause stress in life, and you're supposed to tally the points you have if you experienced that particular stressor. It says if your total is over 300 you should take warning because you've experienced high amounts of stress. Um, what if my total is over 500? Yeah, I'm not kidding! Guess life has been a bit stressful with all the changes we've faced. Interesting!


The author of the blog said: "We all have these seasons in life. They ebb and flow as the wind changes. And when you’re in one of these unique circumstances that will inevitably end (even if that end is unseen at the moment), grace is the only way you’ll plow through...Grace means knowing where you stand in life. Whose you are...Are you in one of those challenging seasons of life? If so, are you giving yourself grace?" {Well said.}

Think Your Life Is Stressful? See If You're Right



This test, based on the work of mental health experts Thomas H. Holmes and Richard H. Rahe, helps you identify the sources and amount of stress you encounter in your life. The following is a list of stress inducing events, in the order of their Life Change Unit (LCU), from high to low. Note all the items that apply to events you have experienced during the last year and add up their LCUs. Then take a look at what you can do about your stress level. Life Event LCU


1. Death of spouse 100
2. Divorce 73
3. Marital Separation 65
4. Jail Term 63
5. Death of a close family member 63
6. Personal injury or illness 53
7. Marriage 50
8. Being Fired from work 47
9. Reconciliation with spouse 45
10. Retirement 45
11. Change in health of family member 44
12. Pregnancy 40
13. Sexual difficulties 39
14. Addition of family member 39
15. Major business readjustment 39
16. Major change in financial state 38
17. Death of a close friend 37
18. Changing to a different line of work 36
19. Change in frequency of arguments with spouse 35
20. Mortgage for loan or major purchase over $ 15,000 31
21. Foreclosure on a mortgage or loan 30
22. Major change in responsibilities at work 29
23. Children leaving home 29
24. Trouble with in-laws 29
25. Outstanding personal achievement 28
26. Spouse begins or stops work 26
27. Starting or ending school 26
28. Change in living conditions 25
29. Revision of personal habits (dress, manners, associations) 24
30. Trouble with boss 23
31. Change in work hours, conditions 20
32. Change in residence 20
33. Change in school 20
34. Change in recreational activities 19
35. Change in church activities 19
36. Change in social activities 18
37. Mortgage or loan under $15,000 17
38. Change in sleeping habits 16
39. Change in number of family gatherings 15
40. Change in eating habits 15
41. Vacation 13
42. Christmas 12
43. Minor violation of the law 11


If your total is 0-150:
Congratulations! At the moment, your stress level is low. Your chance of illness or accident related to your stress within two years is low. Any change can lead to stress, even enjoyable activities, such as vacations or new forms of recreation. Want to see what to do to keep your stress low? Learn about methods for dealing with stress.


If your total is 150-300:
Take care of yourself now. You have borderline high stress. Your chance of accident or illness related to your stress within two years is moderate. Recommendation: To reduce your stress, try some of these methods.


If your total is over 300:
Warning: You have a high stress level. Your chance of accident or illness related to your stress during the next two years is great. Stress intervention techniques are strongly urged. Click here to learn more about stress.


http://health.discovery.com/centers/stress/balancing/stress/assessment.html

That actually made me feel better because I feel like it's been a pretty great year, despite all the hurdles!

xoxo,

Jane

Thursday, March 11, 2010

Nope, it's not Friday today.

All day yesterday I kept referring to tomorrow {which is today...stay with me now} as Friday! That can really throw a girl off! Last night was an alone night. Eugene went to UD to watch some high school basketball, so I stayed home, went on a run with Espn, ate cereal for dinner {I know, I gave up giving it up - don't hate me for it}, worked on a project for baby niece, and ran to the store for milk and baby shower necessities. Got a lot done, but I never stopped, so no relaxing or winding down. Oh well, maybe someday my list will be empty!

My wondrous thing yesterday was absolutely a phone call at lunch with my sister. She has an amazing way of making me smile and laugh while I'm crying about challenges. She has such a strong and deep heart, and I'm so thankful for the way she shares it with me.

Tonight my college roomie, Melissa, is coming to visit for a late dinner. I'm so looking forward to seeing her! She's the sweetest thing - the definition of a gentle spirit. Slow cooker salsa chicken with brown rice and corn is on the menu. Recipe to come {hopefully.}

Our devotion last night was on Psalm 34. I love this chapter, and I bolded the particular phrases that spoke to me.  

Psalm 34

Of David. When he pretended to be insane before Abimelech, who drove him away, and he left.


1 [a] I will extol the LORD at all times;
his praise will always be on my lips.

2 My soul will boast in the LORD;
let the afflicted hear and rejoice.

3 Glorify the LORD with me;
let us exalt his name together.

4 I sought the LORD, and he answered me;
he delivered me from all my fears.

5 Those who look to him are radiant;
their faces are never covered with shame.


6 This poor man called, and the LORD heard him;
he saved him out of all his troubles.


7 The angel of the LORD encamps around those who fear him,
and he delivers them.


8 Taste and see that the LORD is good;
blessed is the man who takes refuge in him.


9 Fear the LORD, you his saints,
for those who fear him lack nothing.

10 The lions may grow weak and hungry,
but those who seek the LORD lack no good thing.


11 Come, my children, listen to me;
I will teach you the fear of the LORD.


12 Whoever of you loves life
and desires to see many good days,


13 keep your tongue from evil
and your lips from speaking lies.

14 Turn from evil and do good;
seek peace and pursue it.

15 The eyes of the LORD are on the righteous
and his ears are attentive to their cry;


16 the face of the LORD is against those who do evil,
to cut off the memory of them from the earth.

17 The righteous cry out, and the LORD hears them;
he delivers them from all their troubles.


18 The LORD is close to the brokenhearted
and saves those who are crushed in spirit.

19 A righteous man may have many troubles,
but the LORD delivers him from them all;
20 he protects all his bones,
not one of them will be broken.

21 Evil will slay the wicked;
the foes of the righteous will be condemned.

22 The LORD redeems his servants;
no one will be condemned who takes refuge in him.

xoxo,

Jane
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